For the last three months, I’ve left my house only a handful of times. I couldn’t go out when I needed groceries. I couldn’t go out when I needed my prescription refill. I showered less than a dozen times.
The days I do get something done are usually five days a month, when my mood suddenly lifts. How much it lifts depends on what my weekly changing “mood baseline” is at the time – i.e., how bad the depression is on the other three weeks.
But honestly, I’ve turned into a hermit. Socially, I’ve gone out maybe 20 times in the last three years. This is what Bipolar Disorder looks like for me.
I felt a little more motivated recently to write about my journey because a good friend didn’t fully understand the literality of me telling her that I had “problems getting out of the house.” I had to explain in more detail so she understood it wasn’t like there was a word or a motivational phrase that would help (but bless her for caring, trying!).
I hope you gain something out of my story(ies). Please leave your comments below and on other pages.* It’s great to hear what you think too!
No Pitty Please
This is not a blog that wants or solicits pity (nope, no pity parties allowed here!). It’s part of my goal to educate people on an illness that is widely misunderstood and often stereotyped incorrectly (just like schizophrenia, which doesnot mean “multiple personalities”), and also make it easier for people to better understand what I and others are/might experience.
Please note:
- I am facetious several times in my sharing because that’s just my sense of humor. Keep smiling!
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- I abbreviate Bipolar Disorder as BPAD for “Bipolar Affective Disorder,” which is the official name in the DSM V, the “official” manual for diagnosing disorders.
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Sorry to learn about your “hibernation.” You’ve had it rough. Sympathy–not pity.
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Thank you. As I see it, someone else always has it worse, and I am grateful for what I Do have. 🙂
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It is so sad to read but the stamina
you portray is so strong. Accepting what you see is true and seems to me half the battle.
You can appreciate a consistantcy
and realize we all find others with far worse situation.
I admire you.
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Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful comments. Yes, perspective is important.
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